Sunday, November 18, 2012

So How's it Going with the Tucker Family?




What's big and blue and 20,000 miles long? Richard's ministry trip journey!!

In the past five months, Richard's role of intercessory missionary has shifted into high gear! Around Memorial Day, he created an office in the back trunk of

a large blue sedan, donated to our ministry, and drove into a ministry and fund raising journey that would criss-cross over the Eastern section of America's map.

The first leg of his trip began right here in Kansas City Missouri. at the IHOP missions base where Richard activated two goals. First, he began mapping out our desire to create a restorative home for vulnerable children. We were incredibly encouraged with the number of willing hearts and resources God has placed around us through missionaries and ministries, who we can join together with in bringing this dream to pass.


Richard next started building up the necessary base of prayer and financial partnership for our family so that we can plunge in to our ministry work here full-time. And what better way to prepare for anything than to pray? The week he was to set off on his trip to find partners, he was in one of his times in the Prayer Room at IHOP-KC specifically dialoguing with God about God's thoughts and feelings about this venture.


After an encouraging time in which God laid much on his heart about building up and ministry with God, he had to run an errand to the bank. "Please keep speaking to me about this season, God as I go along." he prayed.


As he entered the door of the bank, a young woman stopped him. "Would you tell me what you do here?" She next told Richard that God had pressed Richard on her heart as he walked through the bank door. God had let her know he was "good soil" to seed into.


As she handed him some cash and then prayed over him, this young lady became our first partner! Richard's eyes filled with tears.


"Thank you, Father. I trust you. You are going to complete what you have called our family to."


After some business in the bank, Richard turned to leave and ANOTHER woman stopped him.


"Are you the man who comes into the Prayer Room with little African children?"


Richard told her of our family. She next shared that she had been praying in the Prayer Room when suddenly God interrupted what she was focusing on and pressed on her heart to go over to the bank across the street ...to find the man who brings African children to the Prayer Room. She was surprised and a little confused but obeyed.


When she got to the bank she immediately found Richard there. After telling Richard her story and encouraging him and praying for him, she donated to him TEN times the amount that the young woman had just handed him!


How's that for our first two partners!!


This was the first of several miracles...we'll have more to share!


Our good Father let us know RIGHT AWAY that HE is our BEST "partner". That as long as we fix our eyes on Him. He will complete WHATEVER he calls us to, while also taking good care of His children. He's the BEST Father. What an incredible family to be a part of!!


So, after sharing this joyful news with the family in a prayerful send-off, Richard hugged everyone tightly and then jumped into "Big Blue" (as we affectionately call our "grande" car!!) for a missionary adventure!


Most of the summertime was spent among loved ones and friends in Nashville, TN. We were humbled by the number of partners who joined our team in Nashville.


As Fall began, our 18 year old daughter Ashley joined Richard for "the best road trip EVER!
" Their route extended through beautiful Ohio and Penn., visiting and ministering among partners there before heading up to America's border with Canada to take in the awesome power of Niagara Falls.



As they next visited New York, God particularly captivated their hearts as well as ours back at home to pray for souls in that great city. This became the theme of their trip ~ God's Heart for Souls.



Now in the wake of the devastating storm, Sandy, we understand much more why God was so burdening us to pray over that area, for souls, for mercy, for answers,for healing, for God-sized blessings in that region...


During this phase of support-raising, Richard and Ashley were humbled by, "you brothers have refreshed the heart of the saints," as brothers and sisters opened up their guest rooms,pulled a chair up to their tables, and generously shared from their bank accounts to share with our family's call.



In the Washington D.C. area, (our home town!) Richard and Ashley had the privilege of many more invitations into homes and offers to speak along the way in churches and groups along the East Coast regarding intimacy with the Father's Heart!!


A favorite connection from one of the times was a 60 year -old lady who shared that as Richard was speaking, her heart burned. She believed that this moment was the spark she had needed to say yes to God's call on her husband's and her life to say yes to a calling that God had been pressing on them for a while to radically change the direction of their lives and become follow Him into a ministry in another country. "You mean its not too late for us?"


"Of course not! Nothing is impossible for God!" Richard replied with JOY.


Another precious story came in just the other day. While visiting some dear friends who wanted to partner with our family, in the Northeast, Ashley and Richard asked if they could pray for anything for these friends.


"You better!! I expected it!" Quipped our friend.

As they prayed for different issues as well as a matter of healing, tears flowed. It was a precious time.

Just the other day, the lady went to her doctor and got an encouraging report of HEALING--of something that previously she was told was not able to be healed by medicines. She was joyful and full of hope over the other items they had brought to God too. JOY!!


As father and daughter prayed and ministered in homes along the their way along the road, they were setting a strong precedent for what ministry will look like in the
Tucker family...

And like I mentioned before, we have more stories to share...That are full of God's grace and His care for His people and of what He is up to not only in our family but on the Earth right now..


And now, after 6 months on and off and on, and on, and ON the ROAD!! Richard is heading back for Thanksgiving!!!!!! WHAT a lot we have to be thankful for this year. That God is providing for a family of 8 as they step out to obey Him...is a miracle all unto itself!!
 We are not quite yet fully funded, but we have received a wonderful foundation and believe that in the next months we could be to where we need to be with the response of the people who God has already planned to step on board with us, to journey into intimacy with His heart and care for the vulnerable among us...

We are SO THANKFUL for EACH person who has loved on us here at home and on the road. And to those of you who have given to us and have committed to financially support us, we pray that God will bless you and return to YOU abundantly what you have sown into God's Kingdom through your love toward us.


It has not always felt easy...but God has made it "light" for He does not burden us with what we are unable to carry. A special grace has been on our family...each of the children are truly blooming in this season. 
                                                        Ashley as Maria in the Sound of Music at The Daniel Academy


                                                                GRADUATION!!!!!!


 We see this as confirmation of God's hand on what He is doing among us as a family unit.
                               
                                                                         Our AMAZING Chef, Graham!!


                                                                    Following in their Papa's Footsteps!
 
 We purpose that we will continue to minister as a family.

This is a Prayer Room for children.  Anderson is now Singing and Worship and Prayer Leading for Elementary Children at the IHOP-KC Missions base, at school, and at Sunday School.  (Here he is singing)
 
 

                                                                    Jackson in an Early Morning Quiet Time




                                                        Jack and Bruik Shining at Soccer and Having an Awesome Year!





                                                                       Bruiky and Mommy in the Fall. :)


                                                Miss Ava on her way to Dance Camp!



                                                                            Gillian and Ava Enjoying a Snuggle.

 While it has been very hard to keep sending our beloved Husband and Daddy off on the road, we are VERY excited about this season in our lives...we are ALL in 100 percent!!!



It looks like the traveling will become less and less in this next season as we head toward the completion of the last (financial) third of what we need as a family. YAY!! But there are more necks to hug, more heart connects to make, more precious brothers and sisters to meet and enjoy our Father God with ...and for this we are so encouraged.

We love you, friends and are so THANKFUL for you as we head into Thanksgiving week!

Blessings and Love!

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Keys, Walls, and a Coat of Paint

 This Post was an honor to write for a guest post today on Sara Hagerty's blog, Every Bitter Thing is Sweet...

 

Keys, Walls, and a Coat of Paint

The woman whose writing I get to share with you today has a true gift of encouragement. The words she’s shared with me, slid under the virtual fence as if we were neighbors, have nearly every time taken me back to Him. She’s got a big enough flock to not waste time on unnecessary words — what she says carries weight.

And, friends, this woman loves her man. The light in her children’s eyes, sent from Him, they clearly witness, first, under their roof. Often. There is beauty happening between their four walls and, here, Gillian lets us peek in.

(For the month of May and two weeks into June, I will be pressing pause on my online writing and this space will become a series of testimonies of what He births in the midst of delay, perplexity and pain. Author friends fromaround the country, who love words on a page and Him even more, will share, here, how they have seen Him make the bitter, sweet.)
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… “So take nothing for granted.  Stay awake in prayer.”


Years of listening to our Father’s heart, let us know it was time…  Time to pick up the tools of a builder and the weapons of a protector…


For the harvest field of adoption is also a battle ground.

As we prepared to go to Ethiopia, we believed we were at the end of a journey,  a completion of the mercy heart that God had built in our family of six for the lost lambs of His world…  OH, how we were to find, this was only the beginning of LEARNING how to build…

And did we EVER over- pack!!

We laughed as my six foot five inch husband, Richard, sat down on our massive roller suitcase to zip it up. Heart and mind OVERFLOWED with hope and promises  saved up from our times spent with God in adoring, listening prayer during the  year we waited for our babies.  We also bulged with bits of helpful tips from adoption blogs and orphan psychology books…innocent intentions…and some romanticism…
As our plane inclined out of our world and into another, thankful tears rolled down my face.  Awe filled my heart…. In that quiet moment, as the plane’s wrestle with gravity pulled me against my seat, my spirit lifted into adoring prayer. And, a familiar, Fatherly voice spoke in my heart’s ear over and over again…

Words I had never memorized…

Phrases which truly mystified me,

“Your people will rebuild the ancient ruins and will raise up the age-old foundations; you will be called Repairer of Broken Walls, Restorer of Streets with Dwellings.” (Isaiah 58:12)

Apparently I was not at the end of a journey but at the beginning of another…


Please continue.... on Sara's Blog at Every Bitter Thing is Sweet

Sunday, May 27, 2012

Lemonade's a Flowin!!

 An ALL-American sort of Memorial Day Blessing!!

I do think we may have been visited by an "angel in disguise" just the other day...and at my boys Lemonade stand!



Anderson, our 11 year old,  is spear-heading a summer of lemonade sales. :))  And now, living on a busy street here in Kansas City, he has great visibility!  Plus he understands the power of GREAT advertisement a.k.a.   a super cute bunch of  REALLY cute younger siblings "helping" him out. :))   Thanks to everyone who has already stopped by to support his budding business side!!

 We especially love it when the college students from our local bible college here at IHOPU (International House of Prayer University) drop by. Many do not have many quarters in their own pockets and yet they really pour into our guys! I think many could be buying lemonade to honor a memory from their childhood.

 The boys have met a WIDE selection of people and our expectation and prayer is that they will bless EACH ONE that comes to our driveway.  Their is something about the exchange of conversation and lemonade and blessing from these little ones that is tenderizing hearts...they have regular customers now!





 We have met funny but kind gang members (a fun story for another day!!), Muslim ladies who buy lemonade for a car- full of family every time the stand is open, kids, dads, AND OUR FRIENDS :)).... 


They even made a deal with the ice cream man -- he drove right up to the stand so they could buy ice cream from their earnings and he drove off with a large cup of lemonade bought from them.  I sit on the front step, overseeing  the going -ons, sometimes just laughing at these interactions ... They crack me up!!

Yesterday, a retired vet. stopped by and paid FIVE TIMES the amount for his cup! A while later, when the stand was put away and we were all playing a game in the back yard,  he came back, pulled into our driveway in his pickup truck and asked to speak to Anderson.


 "Son, these are for you.", he said, and pulled up a grocery bag with two FIVE POUND containers of lemonade mix in there!! Anderson glowed soft and kind of shy with thanks.

"Now you make sure you use this all up in your sales...and then whenever you need MORE, flag down my truck and I'll get you whatever you need. What do you need now? ...Cups??? I'll get those too for ya." He sat in his truck and share stories about his Army travels and all the ways God had provided work and jobs for him through his life. His words were saturated with generosity. We got to soak it all in...and also got oppurtunity to give thanks and honor in our words for this man's service to our homeland. (There's always something so sacred found in  honoring.)

"Whatcha saving up for, son?"

Anderson spoke of giving to God first, of sharing with those who have none, of saving, and then of a fun item that will being delight to the summer days... It was his new friend's time to glow. :)

Anders. is mixing up some lemonade right now...He'll be selling, using the blessing that was given to him...It awakens my heart to the reality that this is EXACTLY how Father God cares for us--with delight--getting down on our level to bless us--and then, giving seed for us to plant and bring in an inheritance...
God just pours love in our cups that will NEVER run dry....I just LOVE His economy!!
Blessings on this Memorial Day weekend! 

Love, G

Friday, May 25, 2012

Surely Goodness and Kindness...




I had been praying specifically for more goodness and kindness to develop in our family in this next season...and yesterday Anderson arrived home with two New Zealander baby bunnies...one brown like chocolate he named, "GOODNESS and the other, a chunky,fluffy grey doe, he names, "KINDNESS".

 "Mom, he said, I named cause, just like God says, goodness and kindness will follow us all the days of our lives!"...we are having MORE fun with "goodness and kindness"...I mean, could they be AnY cuter??...And their little names are like little proclamations all over my home this weekend..."Kindness, come here! :)"..."Hold on to Goodness, Jack"..."Bruik will you share Kindness with me?".... and I do believe I already see a sweet transformation coming forth from the gift of our fluffiest family members ♥...

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Grace Walks Down This Weekend

Sweet, Sweet Ashley Grace...is how her name scrolls across my cell phone screen...

My First Baby Girl...

The Darling of my heart...

Will Graduate on Saturday!

My heart is all in a swirl of love, and memory and THANKFULNESS for this one that God has lent to us.

I know ALL mothers say it, but when its your turn ...Oh, my , Oh , my ...there's ALL this light to blink into... reflecting off all the facets of this jewel that first was entrusted to me those 17 years ago at Vanderbilt Hospital in the wee hours of the morning.

...after a day and a half of labor

eyes fixed on that hospital bassinet she would soon lay in...

Wonder and Beauty and Awe...too wonderful to behold.

And then...oh there she was!  10 pounds of glory and beauty and grace...ours.







                    Our Ashley Grace



How do they go from first steps



to walking down a graduation aisle?


Explain all this glory to me!   

Or better yet, indulge me to walk through in photos a BEAUTIFUL life


Full of Tenderness


Sweet as a  little flower...so kind and gentle


She even did the Chicken Pox with Style! :)


Strong and Focused on her Sports Fields


Driving down a field with her golden hair flying!!



Or Swimming it up...




Or warring Lacrosse events!!

Don't mess with this little lady's determination!! :))

It was the same in her studies...

And in our home...

She taught us about Excellence, and Beautiful Endurance, About Forgiveness

And Ever-Willing Flexibility...

She was not the only one for long!!


The babies came



And one of their favorite places were her arms...


More came


She helped me carry them all...


We have been the best of buddies...in this blessing of LIFE.



She was such a part of the vision God has had for our family that if it were not for her

I do not think we could have stretched our wings as far.

In these years she laid so much down 

In the learning to be a Shepherdess.

But she now reaps

From a beautiful harvest bowl.

And soon..she'll launch...



With Eyes Lifted up


Sweet Golden Girl 


Ready


Worshipful Songbird


Pensive and Studious



Our Joyful Gift!!

We bless you as you "walk down the graduation aisle" this weekend.

Oh how we love you, sweet, sweet girl!!

And oh, how we believe

you are SO ready 



For the Harvest Fields...

Surely Goodness and Mercy will Follow you all the days of your life, gentle one.

"She will Laugh at the Days to come"

Love, Mom



Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Spring!

SPRING!

I found this little
Flower
on the edges of a Missouri Soccer field...


And a soccer star was also shining in the grassy fields...holding his favorite
Treasure
of this season...


Time for
Freedom
...and fresh winds on our faces...


and time for
Rompin’
and leaping about...



 
Ah, SPRING!

Love, GG